Is it when you say, 'I hate you,' stop communicating, run around on each other, or is it because you just gave up? There's a thin line between hate and love, so it would be something that could go either way. Although, it's not uncommon for you to really dislike your spouse one minute and love them the next.
Communication is always important, but even then it's still possible to still love someone and not communicate as much as you once did. Usually, it's a sign of taking each other for granted. Sometimes all it takes is finding a new interest to do together to start you talking to one another.
Even if one spouse runs around on the other it doesn't mean they don't love you; they might just be a little bored with you, or you're not providing something they need. A couple like this could work it out if they want to.
Giving up is the most common reason for why marriages don't last. People get mad and they quit working at their marriage. It's so much easier to quit on a relationship than to work at it, and I guarantee it takes work in any relationship.
There are times when you can't love someone anymore. For instance, someone you love turns out to be abusive; it's time to get out then. Your partner murders another person; it's time to get out.
Could you trust them again?
Thank you for reading. Have a great week, and I'll see you next Sunday.
Sandra K. Marshall, Author@ Eirelander Publishing